Game changers

If you think about how any game is played and you realize its components you can change the game.

But you have to be patient and grow slow.

The nature of human sex.

People say that men think with their dicks. It is also true that women think with the opposite.  Nature intended it that way.

So I am free versing. I didn't think before I started writing, so there's a great probablility that someone will be offended. Reader beware.

I am not a girl, I have no sisters, and I have few female friends who are open enough to speak about sex.  I have read a lot, but well rounded people know that theory is an over simplification of any process. In the physical world theory works well most of the time, but humans... well we're all different. 

So boy's brains hang towards the left. And it is easy for gravity and motion to swing it either way.  Girls, on the other hand are anchored in place taking in the world (huge metaphor).  And were both driven by our brains.  Women hold the key to what gets in, while guys figure out how to get in. Of course the brain of the woman holds the key to life, and so women essentially have two brains. One, to let men's brain in, and the other to figure out how to keep the rifraff out.

To make this situation more complex, women's brains communicate with each other, and in making a decision the vote must be unanimous for a favorable outcome.  (Actually, men have two brains too, but the hanging one is buffer,faster, quick to decide, and high on natures best drug: testosterone. Heck it hangs above the supply of that good stuff. Thus the other brain is rendered to the role of the appendix, that is unless big brain gets in trouble. In those times big brain shrivels like skin in cold water).

I can say that nature was unfair making it this way, but that is just my illeterate brain speaking.

More on this later.

A new experiment

Since this weblog is essentially me shouting at from the top of the mountain, I suppose I wont be offending any one if I begin to focus on sex.

Sex is possibly the most fascinating subject that humans think about. It is possibly a fact that sex just like politics and religion, are the things most of us think about but feel hindered to speak about.  But me,  I have decided to join the ranks of those who speak openly.

So here goes.

I love talking about sex.  It is possible that I do so because I suck at it. Maybe my sex IQ is so great that my ideas about sex just freak people out.  Or maybe I am hanging with the wrong crowd.

So, in order to figure this all out, I am using writing. This may be educational. It may be offensive, and it may also be perosnal. Proceed with caution.

Looking Back.

Sometimes the best things are ahead of us.We learn more, we do more, we achieve.  And, as one learns, she can use the skills that were learned to apply in situations that are new, or in situations unrelated. 

One reason that some people work so hard is so that they can become better in the future.  One thing that many loose when focusing too much on the future, is the beauty that lies around us.  Sometimes, when we focus too much on what lies ahead, we miss the beauty that is so present and so beautiful behind us.

Catching the American dream.

This note is about American exceptionalism.  This is the idea that the united states of America is the awesomest place on the planet earth. In. The US anyone can be vertically mobile. Anyone can become anything they want to if they try hard enough.  While this idea is true, in general, this can happen anywhere in the world.
It may seem that I am highlighting the obvious, but if we consider how the statement of American exceptionalism, which for convience we will hereafter abbreviate as AE, is shouted around we would think that it was easy.

Truth be told, it is easier to become happy than achieve the American dream.

Bold statement right? Not really.  I started from zero. And, from this point I can see why people do all kinds of strange things to just taste a little of the pervibial American pie.  From an outsiders perspective, poor people in America own cars,have have cool gadgets like big televisions, smart phones and such.  Food is cheap. And one can find any job to make a living.

Of course the missleading notions  of the above statements is that just because one can pay ones bills they are self actualized.  That expensive objects make most people happy. 
These ponderings have lead me to conclude that AE is BS.

Lights

Sometimes,we are afraid to look outside especially when the sky is not so bright outside.  Sometimes the darkness makes us sad.  Bit what can we do?  Sometimes wee get paralysed by our fear.  Sometes there is nothing we can do about it.

Or can we?

Light is natural, it is also man made. Light is also the product of energy conversion.  Which leads to the observation that we can produce it if we try hard enough.

On belief and looking at another year.

So the year is winding down. One more week and lots of change has happened in the previous fifty. From one where big ideas and lots of faith kinda paid off. One where belief in a higher power has helped me to see and understand that this here life is full of possibilities, especially for those who believe.
So what do we have to believe in? Everything, and nothing.
First we have to believe in ourselves. Yea the voices in our heads are saying that we are great. We must believe that above the doubt and doubters. We must believe that we are competent at at least one thing. Don't believe the words of doubt. Do believe in infinite possibility.

Second believe that if we want to accomplish anything, we can get it done. This is easier done than said. A lot of energy is wasted trying to convince your self that you can't jump over th hurdle. Just jump. If you fall you get up and keep running. Failure is an option. Quiting isn't.

Third, there will be screw ups. Murphy's law and I paraphrase: shit must happen. Therefore in the plans allow twenty percent for: miscalculation, haters, the man, and incompetent humans. These are natural factors of living on our planet. And if you don't budget for them you can only expect eighty percent. See why over achievers put in one hundred and twenty percent? If this statement makes you feel overwhelmed, consider the above three paragraphs. And believe. Everyone can do anything they believe they can do. If you want to get it done you will get it done.

Maybe I should stop numbering now. Next, pray. Whether you pray to the God of the christians, or the gods of the greeks, hell the sun god, or the lack of a God, pray. Prayer is a way of admitting that " although I am awesome I am nothing without the influence of a greater power. My human shell is not powerful enough to accomplish 120 percent. And by myself I can't pass with nothing greater than a C. Prayer makes us have hope, and makes others feel obligated to help us. Prayer makes realize that it is okay to ask for help. Prayer makes us realize that it is okay to fall. It makes us diminish the ego.
Finally prayer urges us to believe.

Be thankful for what you have. When you are thankful for what you have, you begin to see that you could be worse, or worst off. Be thankful, and then work for more.

So these are the lessons that I learned. References to you or us, were the lessons that I learned. I am sure the can work for everyone.

Lucas K Fontenelle